Friday, April 10, 2009

Final Reflection (Post #7)

From my very first post, I mentioned that I was an attention seeker who loved to talk and ceased to listen. To make people listen, I would yell whatever that comes to mind without processing what I want to say. Over the period of the course, I have learned that it is important to be able to listen well, and give opinions only when it is appropriate. My idea of communication have also changed in the sense that I now understand that communication is not only verbal, but it also encompasses non verbal cues or certain acts.

Throughout these few months in the course, I have also learned that the way we communicate with another person could result in very different outcomes. An inappropriate choice of words or even the lack of a smile could lead to undesired circumstances. To be able to communicate effectively would also mean that there is magnitude in the things I say and respect for my listener.

The different skills and role playing we had in class has definitely heightened my knowledge on many different situations. Many topics and issues discussed also opened me up to new ideas which have never crossed my mind. For example, the various blog evaluations on intercultural behaviour gave me insights to cultural practices I was previously ignorant about.

In particular, the research study we did taught me many skills. One important thing I learned was how to work effectively in a team. I learned that it is important to be able to understand the way each team member works in order to have an enjoyable working experience together. The course of this project also taught me more about myself and the way I handled things, and this gave me a better idea on how I can improve myself.

It has been a fun and enriching 4 months in the course and I have taken with me valuable skills and friendships.